Lenore Skenazy of Free Range Kids wants you to take your kids to the park today — and leave them there. Not forever, of course. Just long enough for them to play without your supervision.
And by “play” I mean: Stand around, get bored, wonder what to do, wish there was an Xbox around, feel hungry, feel a little too hot or cold, feel mad at mom for not organizing something “really” fun, like a trip to Chuck E. Cheese, feel bad all around, realize the other kids are feeling bad too, and then—in desperation—do something.
Start a game of tag. Or basketball. Or fairies versus witches. And suddenly, those bored kids who were desperate to go home don’t want to go home at all. They want to KEEP playing— with any luck, for the rest of their childhoods.
Playing is that powerful. It’s addictive. It’s what children have done since the beginning of time…till about a generation ago, when we decided, as a country, that letting kids go outside on their own is just “too dangerous.”
Do you know how many kids play outside on their own these days? One study I read said that in a typical week, the number is down to six percent. That’s kids ages nine to 13—the sweet spot for goofing around and, incidentally, becoming independent. But instead of exercising their bodies and minds and ability to organize ANYTHING on their own, including a couple hours of free time, most kids are either supervised in leagues or stuck inside, usually with a screen.
Lenore’s full piece is here.